Still in search for a soulmate, you decide to give online dating a try. You come across RuPersonal.com where you meet this sexy Russian woman and you realize how close to reality your dream is. After you've communicated for a while, it is time to meet her in person, for the first time. Meeting a woman in a comfortable environment is your best strategy for transitioning to a relationship in the real world. Here are some tips to help you make a good impression.
Meet as Friends
When time comes to meet your sexy Russian woman in person, meet as friends. Don't go to your first meeting with the idea that she is The One or she might be The One. That puts way too much pressure on your first meeting.
Meet at an Agreed Place
When your online date has decided that she is ready to meet you, ask her to pick the place for your first meeting. This allows her to choose a place where she will feel comfortable. She may ask for your opinion and making a few suggestions is fine. You might also want to give her a few no-go places, if you don't enjoy a particular type of food, but try to be flexible. Unless one of you is driving a long distance, I would suggest making your first meeting fairly short. Meeting for lunch, coffee or dessert will be a good start since none implies huge expectations. Even if you have to fly all across the ocean to meet her, take it slow. Start with a short meeting, and then gradually increase the time spent together.
Dress Casual
You should discuss with your online Russian babe the way you will dress for your first meeting. I suggest you dress casually. I think that helps everyone to keep their expectations in check and promotes a friendly, comfortable environment to explore the possibilities for romance. Your focus should be on one another, not the clothes that you each are wearing.
Have Fun
When you, finally, meet your online woman, relax, be yourself and have a good time. Remember, you will look your best with a smile on your face.
Send an E-Mail after Your First Meeting
After a successful first meeting, before you go to bed, send that sexy Russian woman a short e-mail saying that you enjoyed meeting her in person. This is a good way to let her know that you are still interested, and it is the best way to help move the relationship forward. In case the e-mail idea is not relevant for your situation, get creative: write her a little note before you part, telling her to read it only when she gets home, or give her a short phone call, if possible, etc.
Transitioning to a Real World Relationship
Meeting your Russian babe , or any other girl you met online, for the first time is a big step in transitioning you from an online/phone relationship to one in the real world. In some cases, it still may take awhile before your woman feels comfortable enough to give you her phone number, so that you can call, or her address so you can pick her up for a date. It might take even longer before she will be ready to meet for real. That will come with time, just try to be patient and understanding. Patience might get you somewhere, impatience won't get you anywhere. Take it slow. Your sexy Russian woman will prove worth the waiting.
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