If you feel that you've tried everything and nothing seems to be working, this article will open you to some new possibilities. So many of us get into the attitude that nothing works, nothing is going to help, and there's nothing we can do about it. Not unsurprisingly, our attitude keeps us from getting anywhere. The instant that you find yourself closing off to the possibility of something wonderful happening-such as telling your friend, "No that cute guy couldn't possibly be looking at me," or, "He just wants to be friends, I'm sure he's not interested," or, "Why bother going to the party? There won't be anyone there"- you close yourself to the possibility of magic happening in your life.
I believe in miracles. Given the vast number of people in the world, it's amazing that anyone finds a soulmate at all! Each time a man and a woman meet and connect, each time they place a ring on one another's finger to express their heartfelt commitment, I think a miracle has occurred. It's the miracle of LOVE. Women are often criticized for being romantics. We're unrealistic, men tell us. We expect too much, or we think men should be knights on white chargers, or we expect it to be Valentine's Day every day. Men can't be like that. They're just ordinary human beings, imperfect as us.
Romance is certainly guilty of excess, but it serves one crucial function in our lives: it gives us hope and the belief that true love is not just something that might happen... it's our destiny. If you've gotten discouraged in your attempts to find love, know that you are not I alone. I had one disappointment after another and had closed myself off to any possibilities of finding love. I then realized that in order to find the love I was so desperately looking for, I had to be a true believer. I had to believe that I hadn't found the right man yet because it wasn't right. You won't find love if you don't believe it's out there. You won't find love if you believe it can't happen to you. Switch your thinking around and discover the power of saying "yes" to possibility. Say "yes" to the thought that you might stumble upon your future husband tomorrow. Say "yes" to the thought that you'll be married in two years. When I finally said yes to all the possibilities it changed my life and I have never been happier.
Discouragement and feeling upset and frustrated at your lack of progress in the dating game is normal, everyone goes thru that. Getting dejected and down about yourself will only get you further away from the life you want, not closer. As you learn how to open yourself to new situations, new people, and new ways of being, you start allowing everything to happen as it should. If it helps you (as it did me), believe that there is a Higher Power at work. If things don't work out as you wish they did, if that guy that you really liked didn't like you back, don't get angry at the world. Instead, believe it is part of a larger plan. A larger plan that will give you the life and love you have always wanted-It did for me!
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