When people reach a certain age, especially women, they are constantly pressured to "tie the knot" and "settle down" with a life partner. Unfortunately, this very often results in the wrong choice of partner. Settling for anything less than a soulmate for life can be a costly mistake. Let's examine why.
I was casually flipping through the newspaper, and was shocked to find the following title in huge letters: "Find Mr. Right Before Age 30 or Settle for Mr. Second Best."
The article talked about how too many women are swept off their feet by the idea of soulmates and that in real life they don't really exist. It went on to say that strong marriages are built upon trust and cooperation, not on that fairytale kind of love and romance we see in Hollywood films. In a very serious tone the article told us to get our heads out of the clouds, because by the time we are 30, that's it - our clock has ticked away its time and we'd better find a man fast before we hit 40 and we find ourselves alone and miserable.
I can without a doubt tell you that settling for the wrong mate could be the worst mistake of your life. Think about it. You have to spend every day of your life with this person (with the occasional break maybe). You have to share everything with this person - the joys, the sorrows, the money you make, your kids! If this person is not your soulmate, your life might be OK, but it will never be great. You will never experience true happiness. And isn't that what we are all after in this life? None of us want a lot of money, a big house, or a successful career. We want the positive feelings that come with having those things. So, if you are with the wrong partner, I can assure you that won't be able to experience those positive feelings on a regular basis.
If your life partner is not your soulmate, it will affect you in more ways than you can imagine. The effects may range from subtle to catastrophic, but sooner or later you will definitely notice them. If you are not with the right person, you may one day find yourself feeling very empty. Life isn't very fulfilling when you are sharing it with someone whom you don't have a deep connection with. When that happens, no amount of "cooperation" or finances will help fill that vast hollow space. Yet when you are with a soulmate, all the other gaps in life become much easier to fill.
Settling for second best in relationships is kind of like wearing a pair of shoes that doesn't quite fit you every single day. They might look good, and the quality might not be bad either, but if you are uncomfortable in them, eventually you will start hating them at best, or do some serious damage to your body in the worst-case scenario.
But it's difficult to find a soulmate, isn't it? Well, that depends on you. Basically, it's like the old saying goes: whether you believe you can do something or not, you are absolutely right. It may take a little more than a belief to find your soulmate, but everyone certainly has it within them to do it. The key is not to believe those who say it's difficult or impossible, or that there is only one soulmate for each of us out there. There are thousands and you just need to be open to the possibility of meeting one.
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