Researching an online dating site

Sifting through the hundreds of online dating options can be a difficult and confusing task. How can you tell which one is right for you? Narrowing down your options (if any specific interests haven't already) may require some effort on your part, so don't be afraid to take the time to research each site before making any commitments. Remember that just because a site is popular, or that if has many singles, does not mean it is right for you. There are so many available that you don't have to settle until you've found one you're comfortable with.

Here are some tips to keep in mind when researching an online dating site.

Ask around:
The single most effective way to find the online dating site best suited for you is to speak directly with people who have used the services. If you're lucky enough to know someone with Internet dating experience, ask them as many questions as possible about their experience. Which site did they use? What did they like about it? What did they dislike? Have they heard anything about other sites? If you don't know anyone you can talk to, look for message boards that relate to dating. Most often you'll be able to read the points of views of other singles, as well as pose your own questions.

Use the net:
A good way to start your search is to find out which online dating sites have the best reputation. Apart from the aforementioned message boards, you can find this out with some crafty Google or Yahoo searching. Look for website reviews or industry related articles detailing new advances and features. Often, you may also be able to find lists detailing the most popular services. This is not a foolproof method, it may be a good idea to start your research with the most renowned and respected services and go from there.

How long have they been around?:
While many new sites pop up every day, you may have better luck starting with dating sites that have been around the longest. Most often these are the services that have an established customer support system, as well as a larger database of singles. Take some time to read the "FAQ" and "About Us" sections of each website you go to, as well as any information you may find from other sites. The more you know before you start, the better you'll be able to judge what is the best value for your money.

Take full advantage of trials:
Many online dating sites offer trial memberships with which you can get your feet wet before jumping into the pool. These are invaluable tools when trying to find a dating site that suits your needs. To avoid later confusion, make sure to read the service's entire terms and conditions before starting a trial. From there do what you can to try every feature the service has to offer. Test out its customer support, the ease you have browsing and contacting people, and whether or not you find a good amount of people in your area.

Design and features:
Knowing what you want and what you like is obviously the best possible foundation for successfully finding an online dating site. Ideally you want a service that is both easy on the eye and easy to use and understand. Do you prefer corresponding by email or chatting? Do you like talking over a webcam? Or maybe you'd enjoy scrolling through profiles that have voice recordings? Every online dating website offers something different, so take the time to figure out which package of features suits your needs best.

How does it compare? Rank them:
Once you've done your online research and have tried various dating sites' trial memberships, you should have a clearer idea of what appeals to you. If you still have a hard time deciding though, try making a chart comparing the pros and cons of everything you've tried. Rank them from the most enjoyable to the least and use that to make your decision. Remember, no one says you have to stick to just one, so don't worry about using multiple services if you find that useful.

Value for Money:
Because every dating service has a different billing policy and price, finances have to be a part of your decision. Aside from the membership costs, make sure you take the time to understand exactly what your subscription gets you, as well as how often and when you get billed. If money is an issue, there are always free dating sites you can visit (as well as social networking sites like MySpace or Facebook). Keep in mind though that free dating sites generally offer much less in the way of customer support, features and member protection.

With so many online dating sites vying for singles these days, it's no wonder why some people have trouble finding one. Taking the time to research your options before joining anything though will help you avoid any feelings of disappointment or frustration that may come with a bad choice. It will also ensure that the online search for the love of your life is as comfortable an experience as possible.

Mitch Conway is the author of The Go-Getter's Guide To Finding Your Soulmate, the first dating guide designed to help singles save time and become more proactive at meeting people. To find out more, visit http://www.gogettersguides.com.