We all want Love and Good Sex in our relationships. We want Passion and Intimacy communication and "spiritual connectedness"in our relatonships too, but this only occurs if we get the right partner suited for us. I think our parents try and steer us on the "right" track, they tell us to look for certain virtues in our partner. We get a smattering of other good advice too, but basically we are on our own. As a result, most of us are not well trained or equipped to be able to select the right partner in life. So we go from relationship to relationship, unfulfilled and frustrated. Some of us get to the point where we throw up our hands and give up� resigning ourselves to be alone�rather than put up with all the pain and stress of a relationship. But, in the back of your mind, you don't really want to be alone; you just want someone that really "gets you".
Are you picking a partner that is a mirror image of your mom or dad or other figure? This is especially important for women to examine, if they are in relationships that are abusive, a lot of times she is subconsciously mirroring what she saw as a child. This goes the same for the men who do the abusing; many times they saw this behavior as a little boy (or were victims of abuse). So take this opportunity to delve into yourself and you will understand better why you keep attracting the same types of people in your life.
You all may have heard another saying. "Opposites attract" I agree, opposites do attract, but that is never enough to hold us together.. Opposites attract to a large degree, because we seek out partners instinctively that complement us. The heady boring intellect seeks out the adventurous spontaneous partner, we see this all the time. But psychologists and scientists have shown us that, we as humans only grow closer with someone who we share the same kinds interests. If you are into the gym, video games, loves rock climbing and is a vegan; your ideal partner MUST be into the same (similar) types of things. You have to have main life goals, interests, likes and dislikes that are mirror images of each other in order to be compatible. The opposite stuff, then serves as exciting contrast within your relationship.
So, on my quest to find the perfect partner (soulmate) for me, I honed my wish list down to 10 items. My top 7 personality/emotional and 3 physical traits that was most important to me. I was creating a woman, my perfect partner on paper first. The key is to be honest with yourself. If you were talking to an all powerful genie, what would you ask for? Brains, beauty, sex appeal, independence, can cook, etc, etc. Place them on your list in the proper order. I made my list and focused on it. I changed around the order and spent several days at it until it felt exactly right. Once you have made your list, you have completed 90% of the work. Now your subconscious mind (your higher Self) will do the rest. By creating this list, you have put your mind on a different vibration. Unconsciously your mind will screen out people that don't match up to your list, and conversely you will be attracted to those that do (and they will be attracted to you).
Don't look for this perfect partner, just feel them. You are attracting them just by thinking about that feeling of how you will feel with that person. How you will feel when you go out together, etc. How good you will feel when you are rock climbing together. How you will feel when you are both competing for the high score on your favorite video game. It's all about how good you feel. This whole world operates on energy, vibration, and once you change your vibration (your energy), you will attract things of a similar vibration. Birds of a feather do flock together, effortlessly, easily, without strain and hard work.
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