Online dating: the revolutionary way to find your love

Not more than ten years ago online dating and matchmaking services were not as popular as nowadays. I won't reject - that time people also were going for such a «non-traditional» way to find their second half but they didn't tell this to anyone being afraid to seem desparate. But what changed during these years?

Well, if you are thinking about joining some matchmaking service or online dating site but you have some concerns about if it your way to find your Russian bride. Believe me, online dating is just for you! Using an online dating site has become very popular - it perfectly fits our modern lifestyles.

Of course, no one can guarantee that you'll meet your special person at once - so you should be patient and proactive. However you won't waste your time on timewasters, because with gaining experience you will define quickly who is a timewaster and who is someone worth knowing better. Sure, it will take some time but you'll find the person you are really looking for, the person you deserve.

So, especially for you, guys, I've made a list of dating sites' advantages:

Number 1. You can log in whenever you want and correspond with the interesting people - you don't have to wait until the weekend for that.

Number 2. You don't have to be dressed up for an online date. You can comfortably sit in your armchair near the fireplace corresponding with people you're inteerested in.

Number 3. If you're corresponding with the person for some time and suddenly you understand that he/she is not a person you're looking for, it's never late to tell «Sorry, I think we are looking for something different» and continue your research.

Number 4. Anonymous messaging and chat rooms give you a possibility to flirt with someone without any shyness or getting tongue-tied.

Number 5. You will for sure learn more about someone online before meeting them than you would if you had met them in a bar or in the street.

Number 6. Finally, 1 month membership costs less than a night out and gives you hundreds of opportunities to meet your soulmate!

I hope, I've given you enough persuasive reasons to go for online dating to find for your second half!

Try that old white magic with incense and Bayleaves

HI would like to share with you a ritual I do every New Year's that is quite involved and requires a lot of thought and meditation time. It is derived from an ancient Greek ritual for prosperity and fertility. As you may recall, ancient Mediterranean Kings and Queens used to wear garlands of bay leaves (as well as olive leaves) as crowns. Bay leaves, and often bayberry leaves, are often used in Alexandrian magic as well, as well to draw success in business and finances. I like this ritual because first of all it is very "white" and it also involves the writing down of your wishes. The writing down of your wishes on 108 bay leaves works in the same way as a positive affirmation. The stating of your goals and desires allows you to properly manifest them in real life. Every year I pull out my old bay leaves and sort through them and I am always astounded by how many of my wishes have actually been granted.
For this you will need:
* a blank check
* a gold or silver pen (but a green will do if you can't get those colours)
* Cinnamon incense
* a green, an orange or a yellow or GOLD candle (whichever colour attracts you the most)
* Orange oil, bergamot or success oil or Horn of Plenty oil
* a package of bay leaves (whole)
* an envelope
* pretty ribbon
This ritual is for multiple wishes and is best done when you have at least two hours to spare in meditation and quiet. It is best done within ten days before or after the New Year's. After the New Years or on New Year's Day is preferable.
First of all, take a bath in your favourite bubbles (Calgon, take me away!) and put yourself in a calm and peaceful state. You can play some steady rhythmic music if you like - anything that puts you into a bit of a trance (chanting, new age.)
The first thing you are going to do is light the cinnamon incense. Cinnamon is related to the planet Mercury and symbolizes communication and quick results. Then I want you to scratch your name and birth date on the side of the candle. Put the candle plate that is wrapped in tin foil (to represent the moon).
Then I want you to take the blank cheque and write the amount of money that you think you would like to make this year or the amount you need to get out of trouble using a gold or silver pen. Make the cheque payable to the order of yourself and be sure to add a few more bucks in there as fun money.
The idea here is to make this cheque as pretty as possible. Decorate it with lucky symbols such as dollar signs, hearts and flowers so this money is brought to you with a sense of joy. Once you are happy with your cheque, and have signed and endorsed it and everything, I want you to anoint all four corners of the cheque with one or more of the oils mentioned above. To make it even more personal add a dab of your personal perfume.
Place the cheque you wrote to yourself under the dish. Light the candle and say:
"In the name of the I Am that I Am I pray to the Archangels and their legions of light, I pray to the blessed Virgin and her angels of compassion for the following assistance and blessings"
Now open the package of bay leaves. There are two ways of doing this spell -- in a really BIG way or in a more efficient manner. It depends how much time you have. When I did this on my birthday I used 108 bay leaves (or fragments of leaves because sometimes they crumble in the package) but you can use less if you like. I used 108 because it is a real magic number, but you can just do as many bay leaves as you can.
As the candle burns and the incense is burning too, I want you to write on each bay leaf, a single word that represents each thing you would like to happen in the near future. For instance, if you are looking for immigration status thing write the word "Citizenship" on the bay leaf. If you owe the dentist money write, "dentist bill paid". If you would like a lover to return write "lover returns". Each leaf has a wish written on it. On the leaf after write "high paying job", on the next one "safety", "security", "soulmate"... Place the leaves in a circle around the candle in the shape of wreathe so that it looks pretty and keep on doing this until you are all wished out. Your candle should be circled by bay leaves each with a wish written on it.
This usually takes most people quite a while, and before they know it, the candle has burned down.
If you finish writing the leaves early that is ok too, keep burning the candle down to the bottom (so don't get a candle that is too big.) After you have written a wish too, it helps if you "let go of it" and resign yourself to the fact that the higher powers are taking care of it.
After you are done writing all of your wishes, I want you to say:
"I consider this done in this hour, in full power according to the will of God, helping all and harming none Amen."
After the candle burns out, I want you to take the leaves and the cheque and put them in an envelope. Seal the envelope, wrap it with a nice ribbon, kiss it and put it in a safe place. Don't look at this again for a year. Just rest assured that all is unfolding in the Universe as it should.
Blessings to all of you this New Year.

How To Find Love In The FSU

A joyful surprise awaits any man that decides to seek a Russian soulmate,why? They are gorgeous and not just physically. So many share an optimism, a positive and dynamic attitude to their life and what they can achieve within it. They are smart, fun, quick witted, elegant, bright and beautiful. What more could any man hope for? They are different and if you seriously hope to win the heart of your special lady, learn and understand the differences. Not only will it help you in your quest, it will actually strengthen your resolve to succeed in your quest, read on....

Strange as it may seem, due to many varying circumstances Russian & Ukrainian women actually are different. Actually they are different in many very attractive and adorable ways and being aware of these differences, these distinctions can most certainly make your quest more successful, more certain. Why are they different and what are the differences? Because these countries were effectively closed to the rest of the world until relatively recently, these ladies have grown up and developed within systems devoid of foreign influences and this is very noticeable and in many ways attractive.

Within the limitations of this short article, I will list some of the most apparent differences that so many of these ladies share.

1. It is fair to say that in general moral and family values are higher here than in many areas of the world. The development of equality for women in these countries seems to have followed a different route, a different path and so many of these ladies are proudly feminine. They share no inhibitions in dressing, grooming and presenting themselves so as to highlight their feminism, sensuality and beauty.

2. Generally these ladies take their education very seriously and it is true to say that this is their first priority. They will strive for the best qualification, or diploma available to them and will work hard at achieving their goal. The education systems available are very good by any global standard and equally intelligence levels are way above global averages.

3. Having achieved their University diploma, or often during this period, thoughts of marriage and starting both a home and family begin to arise. It is said that Slavic women make the best partners and wives, why should this be? It stems from their cultural inheritence and the family values within which they have been brought up. From a young age they have been taught that a happy and cosy home, a loving and secure family base is the formula to a happy and successful life. It is because of this that they seem willing to go that extra mile, make that extra effort to sustain and support a loving relationship.

4. Another misconception is that they seek a man to lean upon, a man to provide all that they might need in their life. You will actually discover, much to the surprise of many men, that many of these ladies are not simply looking for a man to support them through life. No many would like to utilise either their qualification, or their intelligence to contribute in every way to their new family.

5. Another misconception is that these ladies are driven materially. Again this is in general not true. Almost in contradiction to the above they will need to know you are financially secure before committing themselves to you. If you can put yourself in their situation, this contradiction is not so difficult to understand. It is fair to say they list priority of values as:- Kindness, honesty and generosity (of heart), a serious and responsible attitude, a sense of humour and a passion for life.

So how can this information help you in finding your Russian soul mate?

1. Congratulate her on her beauty, but do not dwell excessively upon this aspect solely. They know they are beautiful and in general seek a partner that will love them for what they are and who they are, not simply for their beauty.

2. Engage her intellect, exchange ideas, you will quite possibly be surprised that her viewpoint will be very different, valid and refreshingly interesting. As confidence and trust develops, encourage her to reveal her hopes and dreams, discover her values and what she really believes to be important.

3. The fact that you are in the fortunate position to try for a Russian Bride does by its nature indicate that you are financially secure. Clearly the expenses involved are incomparable to meeting the "girl next door". Reasure her that yes you are in a position to both help her move to your country and even more important help her establish her new life within your country. Bear in mind that she will be leaving all that she has known and all that she has grown up with and will need to feel really sure of your love and commitment to her. She will need to feel very confident of both your love and your ability to help her start a new life in a new country.

4. Would you be happy for her to either continue her career in her new country, or find a new way of using her intelligence in finding a new occupation? Whilst these ladies are open to a new life in a new country with her partner, remember this is a huge step she will be taking. Engage with her, ask her what she hopes for in her new life, what goals she holds dearly and between you disscuss everything related to your new life together. From her point of view this will show her that you are both serious and that you care. It will be very reasuring for her.

5. It is not wise to boast of your big house, car, or income. In general this will send the wrong signals to her. No dwell on your human qualities, expressing them in your questions to her and your admiration of her. She will learn more about you thus and clearly will learn of your material situation in a more balanced and natural way. For the majority of these ladies a kind, open and generous heart is way more important than your material status. While the majority of these ladies are not materially rich, they are very rich in other ways. They are rich in many qualities, deep qualities and it is for each man to discover this wealth for himself.

There are many beautiful and smart Russian and Ukrainian ladies genuinely searching for love and a serious relationship and with care, luck, patience and respect you can find your perfect partner

Online Dating Safety Part 1: Protect Your Identity and Personal Information

Few people have the time or the desire to spend night after night at bars or clubs looking for romance. For many, online dating sites have become a convenient alternative. Online dating has a reputation for being dangerous, but it needn't be unsafe at all. If a few precautions are taken, it can be just as safe to meet your potential soulmate online as it is to meet him or her at a nightclub. One of the most important rules to remember when using an online dating service is to keep your personal identity and information hidden.

Use a Free Email Account:

Use a free email account when registering at online dating sites, and check the box to keep your address hidden if that is not the default setting. Use a separate email account for dating purposes, and remove your name from the outgoing field of your emails. Using your home or work email address can be dangerous, as it will not take a predator much effort to track down your home telephone number and street address with that information.

Do Not Give Out Personal Information:

Until you have met your date face-to-face, and feel confident that he or she is who they claim to be, do not share any personal information with that person. Personal information that should be protected includes anything that might reveal your true identity, such as your home address, place of work, or places that you frequent, such as gyms or parks. Never reveal the names or ages of your children, and feel free to slightly alter the truth about your career if revealing that information would make it possible for someone to locate your place of employment.

Use a Cell Phone and Block Your Phone Number:

When numbers are exchanged, do not give out your home telephone number. Use a cell phone, preferably a prepaid phone, and block the number before calling your potential date. Whenever possible, do not give out any number at all, but instead ask for your date's contact number and do the dialing yourself.

Be Careful During Your Conversations:

You can easily reveal too much personal information about yourself without realizing it. A simple statement, such as "I am going for a walk to Phil's Bakery," will let a possible predator know that you live within walking distance of that particular bakery. Combined with other information, it can lead someone directly to your home. Pay close attention to the information you share, even when it seems innocent and harmless.

When you turn to online dating services

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Caution!The Completion Myth: Romantic Relationships in Your Twenties

Romance. We are all suckers for it (yes, even you guys--you know what it leads to!) Images of romance surround us: the couple holding hands at Starbucks, the gazillions of bridal magazines you breeze past on the way to buy toilet paper, or the frolicking couples on billboard perfume ads. Newsflash: real people don't do this.

Since most twenty-somethings are entering their first serious romantic relationship, expectations of what it's supposed to be like are fueled by advertisements and Hollywood rather than real-life experience. And this is where the guys have my utmost sympathy. Unless you have a screenwriter following you around, it is nearly impossible to live up to the moves of the latest Hollywood heartthrob. Let's examine one of the most popular aaahh-inducing lines in a movie: "You complete me" from Jerry McGuire. He even says it in front of a room of the woman's closest friends! After that, the two embrace in a "you-are-my-soulmate" hug.

I bring this line up because I see so many twenty-somethings craving a relationship in the hopes that it will complete them in some way--make them happier, relieve some kind of stress, keep them on par with their peers, or please their parents. The most dangerous thing you can expect or do in a relationship is to hold onto the expectation that the person you are with is there to do something for you. That is not the point of a relationship. A healthy relationship is defined by two independent people who share a love for each other but are not dependant on each other.

Whether you are currently swaying to your own beat, sashaying between different partners, or waltzing with one person in particular, it's important that you take the time to dance alone, to understand your personal rhythm, before matching yours to another. Take some single time, especially in your twenties, to learn who you are sans a plus one. You have the rest of your life to share a tube of toothpaste with someone else so enjoy these years of being on your own -- savor it. Living your own life, making your own decisions about your future, and dealing with the "real world" is a plate-full. Serious relationships can make it more difficult for you to figure yourself out, and not knowing who you are can do damage to future relationships. You will probably change more in your twenties than during any other decade in your life. The person you are at thirty may have a vastly different opinion about what you value in a partner than who you are at twenty-three. So date yourself. Fall in love with yourself.

Okay, so if you are still aching to register at Crate & Barrel, will some statistics make you feel better about staying single and feeling "complete" on your own first? Know that Americans are getting married later and later in life. A USA Today analysis of the new census figures shows that just 23.5 percent of men and 31.5 percent of women ages 20-29 were married in 2006. In 1970, 19 percent of births were to women 25 and up. Now, over 50 percent of births are to women 25 and up. Think of it this way: ideally you'll get married and have a long life together. You'll be with this other person for decades, maybe even over half a century, so what's the rush?

And if you're bummed because you are receiving more wedding invites than junk mail these days? Just go and enjoy the chicken dish at your friends' weddings. I know it can be stifling, frightening. It may even make you want to bash your head in with the complimentary champagne flute. To make matters worse, your family starts dropping hints about settling down. Or maybe they say you have plenty of time, but you feel like time's running short. Just take a deep breath, swallow the last bite of wedding cake, and know that when the time and person is right, it'll happen. Don't compare yourself to other people, even if they are your friends. It's your life and your schedule.

And if you are in a relationship, just be sure that you are conscious of continuing to develop your own sense of identity. Sure, a relationship takes compromise, but maintaining your own sense of individuality and independence is important. Do things alone, enjoy time with friends or on hobbies without your mate, and continue to invest in your own personal growth. The best relationship is when two people that complete themselves come together to enjoy each other. Look for your "soul-match," not a fantasy "soulmate" who will complete you in some way -- that's your job!

Confused about whether or not you complete yourself? Here are some signs of personal completion:

* Whether you are single or in a relationship, you cherish your alone time. You don't feel lonely. You actually enjoy doing things on your own. A movie or dinner alone does not scare you.

* You can be around other couples by yourself without feeling jealous or sad about not having a significant other (or not having your significant other with you).

* The idea of being in a relationship sounds wonderful, but it is not something you obsess about everyday. If you are in a relationship, it does not consume your daily thoughts or activities.

* You have a clear sense of who you are and what your values are -- another person would not be able to sway you to sacrifice or change the things that matter to you the most.

* You realize you are responsible for your own happiness and do not look to anyone else to make you feel a certain way. You have no expectations of what a relationship is supposed to do for you.

I realize these signs are not exactly the making of a greeting card or blockbuster romantic comedy; but I guarantee you, if you learn how to complete yourself in your twenties, you will eventually attract your "soul-match." Remember, we attract a reflection of ourselves, so consider working on completing yourself as an investment into upping the quality of your lifetime companion.

Based on the book 20 Something Manifesto. Copyright � 2008 by Christine Hassler. Reprinted with permission of New World Library, Novato, CA. newworldlibrary.com

Christine Hassler left her successful job as a Hollywood agent at twenty-five to pursue a life she could be passionate about. In 2005, she wrote the first guide book exclusively for young women, entitled Twenty-Something, Twenty-Everything: A Quarter-life Woman's Guide to Balance and Direction. As a life coach, she specializes in relationships, career, and self-identity with a counseling emphasis. As a professional speaker, Christine leads seminars and workshops for audiences around the country. She has appeared on The Today Show, CNN, and PBS. She lives in Los Angeles.

The Bachelorette's Baby Bag Biz

Recent reports have already revealed that Ryan Sutter of The Bachelorette is to become part of an eco-friendly reality series entitled The EcoZone Project. However, he won't be the only one who is keeping himself busy in the coming year. In fact, his wife, Trista is also working hard to pursue her personal endeavors and at the same time handle her public projects. It all began when she was looking for her soulmate in The Bachelor and The Bachelorette, until she found him in the form of Ryan. Their wedding was soon televised, and now that they've started their own family, the media is all about them once again.

Trista Sutter has recently signed on a deal to create a line of baby bags named "Trista Baby," which the company claims would offer "a new perspective on style for the sophisticated mother."

The company adds that it "is dedicated to the design of show-stopping diaper bags that function beyond expectation and delight even the toughest fashion critic. Whimsical one-of-a-kind prints meet custom detailing with a touch of charm and a dash of flair."

Most of all, it is in line with Trista's husband's endeavor of keeping products environmentally friendly. The company promised that "every Trista Baby product is eco-conscious and made in America using certified organic materials."

All this environment frenzy isn't new for the couple, who have been advocates for a very long time. In fact, they have built an eco-friendly nursery for their newborn baby boy, Max. Ryan has also written columns about sustainable living and is also certified to build eco-friendly homes.

"We try and live environmentally friendly lives as much as possible...We still use electricity, we still drive cars, we still buy cotton products that aren't organic," Trista previously explained. "But any little thing that you can do, if all of us do our part, it makes such a huge difference, and that goes along with all the fun stuff for babies."

The Key To Finding A Russian Bride

There is something very exotic about women from another country. And that might be what caused you to become interested in Russian dating sites in the first place. If so, you should indulge your excitement about getting to know wonderful and exciting women from Russia because not only are they very different from the girls you will meet at home, those qualities will make you take very seriously the idea about finding a Russian wife through an online service.

If you have used conventional dating services that are popular in the west, you already know that the big ones are perfectly legitimate and many people do find the love of their life on these services. One person who has used dating services successfully explained it to me that an online dating service or internet community has replaced the singles bar for people who want to find suitable partners for potential marriage.

The difference is that in the old days when meeting a woman meant the singles scene at the local pub, or at church or through someone your Aunt Bess hooked you up with. But with the explosion of online dating, the availability of single ladies went from a few to literally thousands or millions of girls from around the world for you to get to know in the safe and protected environment of an online dating
service.

Russian dating sites just give you the chance to focus your search on the pool of potential Russian brides who may be looking for a man from outside of Russia to marry as well. Now you may wonder why a beautiful and intelligent woman from Russian doesn't just find a man at her local pub to marry.

The sad truth is that while Russian women would like to marry Russian men, the availability of men who are "marriage material" in Russia is pretty low. And Russian women are very committed and deeply devoted life mates and they expect the same from the men they wish to marry and raise families with. So when men in their own village cannot meet their expectations, they look to Russian dating web sites to help them find a great guy from another land - maybe you.

Now it is a good idea to use the routine caution and care when using an online service for something as important as finding your mate. For one thing, there have been some scams run by unscrupulous Russians to get money from sincere men who are interested in Russian women. But if you work with one of the major Russian dating websites that has a good reputation and stands behind their work, you should not run into this kind of problem.

Similarly, use the same caution you would in meeting a girl on a domestic dating service both to protect yourself and to protect her. First talk via email and then via instant messaging to get to know each other. Then proceed slowly to get more acquainted and move in the direction of a meeting sometime when all of the proper precautions have been made.

If you are prudent and do what you must to protect yourself and to assure the girl you are talking to that you are looking out for her best interests as well, then you can have a wonderful online romance that can blossom into a potential love affair that may be "the one" for you. And when you return from Russia with your beautiful bride, you will be glad you took the chance on a Russian dating site to help you and your soulmate finally meet.

9 Secrets about Romanian Brides

Almost all foreign bride sites tell you about the

women which are in their database that are:

"gentle, respectful, and loving"

"strongly maternal and family-oriented"

"plays a subordinate role to men in both the

public and private spheres"

"a mail order bride does not really ask for a lot"

I am sure that you have read these facts about

women who are seeking a western man for marriage

or friendship. But how can we classify thousands

of women just in a few words?

The scarcity of suitable husbands in Romania has

led many marriage-minded Romanian women to

explore the possibility of pursuing a Western man.

1. Romanian mail order brides are not character-

less toy dolls. She needs what every woman needs:

a good husband.

While there is no denial that a substantial

number of foreign brides hope to live a better

life in a western culture, it is just as

legitimate to argue that a fat bank account does

not top the list of qualities that these women

look for in a man.

What women want is a man who is honest, loyal,

sincere, respectful, and able to provide for her

children basic needs. The same happens with

western women too.

2. A Romanian bride does not harbor the illusion

of landing a millionaire for a husband, but

instead pins her hopes on finding a man with

strength of character, a shared respect for

family values, and the financial means to

adequately support a family.

Romanian woman perceive Western men as decent,

responsible, easy going guys who know how to

treat their women well.

3. Because she is a healthy balance of

traditional values and a modern, tolerant outlook,

the Romanian brides possesses the intelligence

and sensibility to adapt to a western environment

without sacrificing her norms and customs.

4. Most of the ladies who apply to dating

agencies can at least read and understand English.

There are doctors, lawyers, teachers, government

employees, sales clerks with ages ranging from 18

to 40-plus.

5. A Romanian bride is just seeking the man of

his life. Are You the one?

If you believe in destiny you should check out

some Romanian brides. Your soulmate can be right

there.

6. Just BE YOURSELF when you get in touch with

these women and you will be surprised to see the

success you'll have.

7. NEVER try impersonate someone you are not. Not

only will you come across as insincere, but you

will also feel uncomfortable and make others feel

this way right along with you.

8. Never tell lies to your date or pretend

anything about your life that isn't true. If this

is your perfect match for God's sake do not allow

it to be ruined by some silly lie told early on.

Trying to be cool, aggressive generally just

makes you awkward and unapproachable. Relax, be

natural, be the you that your friends and others

who know and like you, see and appreciate.

9. Show Enthusiasm but stop acting like Kiss-Ass

Wussbags. Romanian Brides are looking for someone

that would ADD VALUE to their lives!

And don't forget that you don't have to impress

all the women, only those which are things in

common with you: same goals, same interests. You

have to know what are you looking for.

Just try, maybe you are single only because you

haven't searched in the right place yet. :)

The One myth

"I'm looking for my soulmate. I want to meet THE ONE." How many Internet dating profiles, conversations, and psychotherapy sessions have begun with these statements?

Relationships, be it relationship troubles, improving relationships, learning how to communicate in relationships, external problems affecting relationship quality, ending relationships, and/or searching for relationships, are what brought people to my therapy office most of the time.

Multi-million dollar industries have emerged to help people find relationships; a soulmate; the one. Four years ago, after little success meeting a mate the old-fashioned way (mutual attraction and flirting), I tried Internet dating. I logged on and found a cross-section of singles searching for relationships. I wrote a profile and browsed profiles. I wasn't quite sure for who I was looking, but knew "the man" I was supposed to meet was "out there," somewhere.

Writing my profile was the first time I'd specifically thought about what qualities I'm looking for in a partner. This struck me as odd as a large part of therapeutic work involves setting treatment and life goals. Why hadn't I set a relationship goal for myself? Before you can achieve a goal, you need to know you want.

After reading many profiles and going on dozens of first dates (over 70 in 18 months in NYC, Boston, Western Europe, and the UK) I discovered a great many people don't know who or what they're looking for in a relationship. When asked for whom they're looking, most reply, "I'm looking for 'the one.' Someone with a good sense of humor, attractive, good chemistry. I'll know it when I see it."

Yeah, that really narrows it down. Most people put more thought into their choice of breakfast cereal than their relationships. If you don't know for what you're looking, how will you know where to look, much less recognize it if you're ever lucky enough to stumble across it?

There is no "one" person. "The One" is a myth, an artifact of the Platonic ideal and Romantic Age perpetuated by Hollywood and contemporary folklore. There's no "one" perfect person. For that matter, there's no such thing as "perfection." A sense of peace and wholeness has nothing to do with perfection, real or imagined.

Relationships and marriages fail because people join for misguided reasons. Common values, emotional styles, and shared life goals are more important than "instant/crazy" chemistry, similar interests and leisure pursuits, but most people don't know it and is largely why most of these relationships are doomed to fail.

The instant chemistry most individuals experience is nothing more than projection, pure and complex. What we "see" and who the other person is in reality are often two very different things. Just because two people enjoy playing water polo and watching "The Golden Girls" doesn't make them compatible.

I've read profiles in which people are seeking a partner who enjoys skiing or rock climbing or kayaking, etc. Are you looking for a girlfriend - boyfriend - spouse or a sports and leisure club? Granted, there are individuals who devoutly pursue their leisure activities every weekend, in which case, their leisure activity has become a value; a lifestyle.

Basing your selection of a mate upon what you like to do on summer vacation is hardly sound reasoning. People divorce because of irresolvable conflict. It's easier to compromise on interests. For example, "If you go to the opera with me on Friday; I'll watch Celebrity Poker on Saturday."

Depending on maturity level and depth of commitment, it makes one happy to be able to do this for a loved one. It's much more difficult, if not impossible, to compromise on values and communicate and connect effectively if you've different emotional styles and temperaments.

Perhaps the divorce rate wouldn't be so high if more people entering into marriage waited for the first flush of ardor to cool and openly discussed these matters. I wonder how many people who blindly gallop down the aisle, believing they're marrying "the one," end up in divorce court later?

Sometimes the simplest concepts are often the most difficult to grasp; even for me. People aren't likely to change values, as they're part of one's identity. Think of values as major internal organs like the heart and lungs. Think of interests as accessories like jewelry and neckties. We need our heart and lungs to live; charm bracelets and neckerchiefs are optional. Values and emotional style trump interests.

There's more than "one" person for us all, if we broaden our expectations. This is good news. It means we have more choices and increases the odds that out of all the people in the world there's only one who could be right for you.

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"I am a firm believer that we are not limited to a one and only one soulmate opportunity in this lifetime. I wanted to help define this concept to offer hope to those who may feel that they missed out if they did not stay with the person they thought was their soulmate or felt they never met them. Many people tend to give up and feel that it just may not be their destiny to find that very special love. It can lead to loneliness and depression that is based more on misperceptions and undue expectations rather than being impossible to find.

"Whether they are married but feel it's to the wrong person, in a relationship but not sure if this is the one or single and hoping to meet Prince or Princess Charming, many of tend to feel it just may not happen for us. We know of people who met at a young age and are still together years later and feel we may have missed our Soulmate if that was not the way it worked out for us. We also know of people who seem like star crossed lovers who may never both be available to each other at the same time. I was hoping to dispel some of the myth and present a neutral but realistic point of view.

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"Another miracle Nickell likes to refute is that of faith healing. How could someone lay their hands upon another and eradicate diseases that doctors claimed were incurable? In this day and age there are many Reiki practitioners and soul path healers who can manipulate energy in the chakras and take away illness. I've seen it done first hand and have even learned the technique of soul path healing. Margarite, my spiritual mentor, was once diagnosed with Poly Arteritis Nodosa, a debilitating and rare form of arthritis that attacked her body viciously. As it progressed, her body's organs began shutting down and she was not given much time to live. After visiting a psychic healer, the doctors were baffled when the illness was no longer there, and like our friend Nickell believes, when it comes to faith healing, these doctors thought they must've made an error in their initial diagnosis. If not that, then Nickell claims these spontaneous healings occur to people who 'were susceptible to psychosomatic influences and/or were known to show spontaneous remissions.'"

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How Can I Find and Date Wealthy Men

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What to do later on you conform to well-to-do individuals online? Obviously you try to meet them in person. How is that attainable? This has been made possible by the numberless features that the site hosts. It has an online dating profile, ongoing stream videos, smart match finders, latest chat rooms, material image and video uploading characteristics, and broad search features.

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Love is probably the only solution that we all desire most. This makes this dating web site a pragmatic answer to the concerns of love for persons belonging to the elite. Beauty finds wealthiness the web site allows casual dating structures and enables prudent trysts with online dating partners. Of course, nothing is binding and the well-off ones can decide to move out of a given alliance at any time they consider feasible.

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Why Singles Should Use An Online Dating Agency

An online dating agency is the place you visit when you wish to meet your soulmate. You can also visit an agency when you want to have other kinds of relationships. These relationships may be friendships, short term flings, pen pals and others. This is a one stop shop for singles. There are hundreds of online agencies for dating. You will find an online dating agency for various groups of society. The groups may be religious for example, agencies for Muslims, Christians, Jews and others. The agencies may be for gay people. You will also find agencies for locals and others for international connections. Over and above this, you will have an online dating agency that has branched of to cater for certain groups. For example, there are single parents online dating agencies, for seniors, professionals, millionaires, executives and the list goes on. It is truly amazing how the face of dating has revolutionized since the onset of Internet or online dating. It is against a backdrop of mixed reactions that this new way has been received. More and more people are signing up to the agencies for matches. This is mainly because of limited time. Many are busy making their economic dreams come true. There is therefore a great need and, an online dating agency will come in handy. A good agency must come with certain qualities and they include the following.

First, they must make sure that their members feel safe. Internet predators like to take advantage of these interactions to wreck havoc. An online agency needs to formulate a clear policy to enhance safety. There are several things it can do to enforce this. First, it can screen all the members for a criminal background. It can also warn criminals to keep of. Failure to this, certain punitive measures to be implemented. You can never compromise on safety. An online dating agency needs to run its affairs in a professional manner. From the content of their sites to the processes, people should feel they are registering with a competent agency. In this regard, they will need to offer a high quality service for members. Many agencies have a private policy. This should not be cosmetic. All information given in confidence should be kept private. Apart from making matches, a good service needs to provide additional information for the members. This could be dating advise, dating news, a monthly newsletter and others. This will ensure the customers or clients are satisfied. The issue of cost will come up. An online dating agency should never extort money from members. The fee needs to be realistic. Offering free services will ensure many singles join the service.

As a single person looking for love, take time and look for an agency with the above quality. Finding love will be made easier and, you can look forward to meeting the man or woman of your wildest dreams. A good agency will make the process fun. Above this, have an open mind and enjoy every moment.

Law of Attraction: One Size Does Not Fit All

In less than 24 hours, I've received three separate emails saying, "If the Law of Attraction isn't working for you, here's the answer." But is it? How many answers can there be?

I don't have to tell you how many great people there are offering books, products, and services about the Law of Attraction. And I have to say, I appreciate them all. They're awesome people and provide remarkable information; and there have been times when what they provide came to me at just the exact moment I needed it. However...

Nod your head if you know what the "however" is... Why doesn't it always work for Me? It's a question shared by many.

Some manifestations are easy-peasy, aren't they? Some aren't. Even though you practice patience, trust right timing, affirm out the wazoo, hold your fingers a certain way, burn a candle and utter incantations, follow any and every technique... there's a moment when you ask, "What the heck is going on?" only maybe you don't say "heck."

The Law of Attraction works. You know this. It's those darned limiting beliefs that are stopping you from getting what you want in certain matters. Some are immediately obvious, some are not. It's the ones that are not that hold you back. I faced this one myself when I had the feeling there was a metaphoric switch that needed to be flipped regarding one particularly stubborn-seeming area of my life.

The realization came to me that using the Law of Attraction is like finding the right diet or way of eating that works for you. You know that some people follow a plan and they drop the weight. You follow the plan and either not much happens or you gain. Why? You're a unique individual. Maybe your body metabolizes the recommended food items differently, or you don't even know you're sensitive to certain ones. The common theme or thread is that an eating plan right for you will work.

It's the same with the Law of Attraction. Maybe what would assist you is to discover which individual beliefs or triggers are buried so deep that you can't see them, but you definitely feel and live the outcomes they create no matter how exactly you follow someone's steps.

One way to do this is to ask the right questions rather than immediately look for the right answers. If the answers were obvious, you'd know them already.

If you feel stuck right now, a good exercise as a first step is to write down every expectation from others that may be attached to your energy... from family members and childhood to friends and associates in your life now. You'll probably notice how some of these expectations contradict each other. You may realize that the only person you haven't heard from or listened to about what you're "supposed" to do in every area of your life (to create your personally fulfilling life) is you.

When the time is appropriate, take several minutes to do this exercise. See what comes up. The only reason someone doesn't have the life they truly desire is because something at the inner level stops them from having it. Maybe it's time to call it out, call it what it is, and find your appropriate way to go beyond it.

One thing I'd like to encourage you to do is stop thinking you must once and for all Get It Right, otherwise known as the Perfection Infection. You are a process. Your life is a process. Learning, growing, and expanding into who you are and desire to be is a process. If you not only make peace with the process, but make it your soulmate, you'll feel stronger and more self-empowered than you've ever imagined possible.

How to experience the freedom of choice

Freedom? Financial Freedom. The freedom of choice. We all take it very lightly all the freedoms we have. But poor credit and no credit can take so many of those freedoms away. You end up with high interest rates. You pay unbelievable deposits. You get embarrassed being turned down for loans or cars.
Then some of us are starting out. Students or those of us starting out first jobs. We have no credit. Then we get turned down for credit because we don't have any. We wonder how do you ever get any.
Or maybe you have great credit. But you are looking for lower interest rates. You want a better rewards programs. You want to continue improving your credit.
No matter where you are in the scale of things, your soulmate of the credit card world is waiting for you. With so many choices and superior customer service...how can you pass up the freedom of choice?
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Freedom? Financial Freedom. The freedom of choice. We all take it very lightly all the freedoms we have. But poor credit and no credit can take so many of those freedoms away. You end up with high interest rates. You pay unbelievable deposits. You get embarrassed being turned down for loans or cars.
Then some of us are starting out. Students or those of us starting out first jobs. We have no credit. Then we get turned down for credit because we don't have any. We wonder how do you ever get any.
Or maybe you have great credit. But you are looking for lower interest rates. You want a better rewards programs. You want to continue improving your credit.
No matter where you are in the scale of things, your soulmate of the credit card world is waiting for you. With so many choices and superior customer service...how can you pass up the freedom of choice?
I have been at the highs and the lows of credit card life. But I have learned the value of credit, managing your money and staying out of debt or rebuilding life after debt. One company has helped me with my needs at all stages of my credit card life. Millions of other people too. So I took 5 minutes out of my day to write this article. Because I feel like the freedom of choices is crucial to us all. No hassel. People who care. Credit card that fit your lifestyle. I am not trying to sell you some oceanfront property in Arizona (smiles). What am I doing is just speaking up about something that helped me. Helped people I knew. Helped re-establish my credit. I got choices. I found some soulmates named Visa and Mastercard. And because I treated them right, they never betrayed me. So...come find your soulmate.
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Make the Most of the Free Online Dating Sites

Free online dating has been the buzzword of late everywhere, especially in the North American countries. Many of my close friends are regular visitors to these free online dating sites they�ve been enjoying their dates pretty much.

Personally, I feel free online dating sites are a great tool to find your soulmate. Unlike bars where you could be approached by a drunk towards whom you have little interest, free online dating sites offer you a window of opportunity to meet new and potential guys from around the world. You can decide which profile matches with your preference and also you can go at your own tempo. You can write blogs or even chat with anyone you like there. If things goes on well you can even plan on going out on date. Even if you are turned down by someone here, there�s no need to feel embarrassed about as no one is watching. I feel that�s another advantage in free online dating.

Kisscafe.com is one of the most popular free online dating sites today. The best thing about Kisscafe is first of all it�s free. In addition its web pages have been designed in such a way that one look at it and you will be glued to it to look for its services that it�s providing. Very nice combination of colors and themes have been used while designed as if someone has put his heart along with his hard work while designing the site. Not only this Kisscafe provides you the liberty to customize your own profile, has the blog and chat facilities, and has a huge database of interesting profiles to choose from.

It�s been a while since I am single. Having watched my friends getting succeeded in free online dating; now I even consider trying it. After all there is nothing to lose and who knows maybe I�ll find my perfect match there. What say guys?

American Singles Need A Date

Why are there so many american singles that are dateless and divorced now a days looking for romance to come. Lets face it, its tough being alone, especially on those cold, winter, rainy nights. Everyone wants to share a piece of their life with their soulmate. Why? Because we were never meant to be alone. We are not designed as humans to be alone. We need love, companionship, and warmth of the opposite sex. Being single in america is especially hard. So much temptation that is in the world. Everywhere you look, television, billboards, magazines, you are eventually going to see TWO people. I just got married a few weeks ago and I have to say that I love it a lot more than being single. I love my wife very much and wouldn't trade her for the world. I know a lot of men especially the "Alpha" male, thinks "ill never get married, being single is too much fun!". That is true to some extent but eventually it gets old. American singles especially make it hard on themselves by these ridiculous, and outlandish ways of dating. Speed dating and blind dates are to name a few. Doesn't anyone ever talk anymore? Whatever happened to a man going up to a woman with his hat on his chest, flowers in his eyes, and a careing stare to ask for a date? Surely, you'd be laughed at. My point is singles in America have lost are sense of "Loving Trust". So people, bring back what class and love use to be. Men be a gentleman and ask a woman out with respect, and women, stop shutting men down for being sincere. I guarantee you if we go back to the way our elder generations have, being single wouldn't be the large problem we have today.

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What Can You Find at a Free Online Ads Posting Site?

Have you ever taken a look at any of the free online ads posting sites? If you have you'll know what a treasure trove they are for finding anything you could ever wish for, and a lot more besides. If you haven't you should find a site and spend some time going through it. You'll be surprised at the kind of things that are on offer there.
Free online ads posting sites give anyone selling "stuff" or services the opportunity to advertise what they have. It could be that you've got a train obsessed child with a birthday coming up and they've requested a train cake - the free online ads posting site may have just the right kind of bakeware to help you create that perfect cake. If they don't, or you don't feel you have the kitchen skills to make it yourself, check out the services section because you may find someone there who makes customized birthday cakes and can create your child's dream cake for a fraction of what you'd pay at a specialized bakery.
Perhaps you need someone to house sit while you're on holiday, then check the services of the free online ads posting to see if anyone is looking for that kind of work. Alternatively, place your own ad looking for a house sitter (make sure you get professional references before allowing anyone the keys to your home!) and see if anyone appropriate applies. If you can't afford a holiday, why not see if anyone is looking for a house exchange holiday - you stay in their home and they stay in yours. You'll find all this kind of thing going on at a free online ads
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Looking for love? The personals section of any free online ads posting site are always popular! Maybe you want to try your luck answering a few that catch your eye and make you smile, or perhaps having read some of the ads at the site you want to write your own and see what kind of response you get. Maybe you'll find your soulmate there in the free ads, it happens!
Collectors can effortlessly add to their collections by searching for the items their passionate about. Whether it's first edition books, movie memorabilia, or classic toys you'll find them listed. Make sure that the condition of the item is listed, and check any photos carefully. If you're not sure, then enter a communication with the seller to ensure that the condition is what you're expecting before you send any money - classifieds are not usually a place to get a refund!
Whatever you want, free online ads posting sites are sure to have it. Whether it's someone to cater for your reception, handwrite your wedding invitations, sell you their used once wedding dress, or even perform the actual wedding ceremony on the ocean front at midnight, these sites have everything.

Is Being Single a Sign of Incompleteness?

Some topics tend to attract a lot of anxiety and desperation. Singlehood is one of those topics. I say that because I have many friends who are single, and so am I. I have frequently witnessed people around me get attached, sigh about the poor quality of people we meet and resign to their state of singlehood.

Are we incomplete if we are single?

Personally, I do believe in soulmates. When I see people getting happily attached, I feel very happy for them. But the society seems to have marked singlehood as a type of disease rather than something that is totally okay. The society seems to think that we are incomplete until we get attached or get married. This has led singlehood to be associated with desperation. Many people become obsessed with their state of singlehood - every time they see people together, when they witness a wedding, and when Valentine's Day comes by.

This anxiety leads them to two possible outcomes. The first, they attract and enter substandard relationships with people who are poor matches for them. The second outcome is unhappiness when they cannot find their dream partner or when they experience a break up.

As I write this, I'm single, 24, and have never been in a serious relationship before. I also have many friends who are the same age as me who have been single their whole lives too. When I was younger, I didn't think too much about getting a relationship nor gave any special attention to guys around me. In the past few years however, I started opening myself up more and more to looking out for Mr. Right. As I opened myself up to the prospect to finding my special someone, I got to know more guys. Over the years, there have been various different guys who expressed interest. However, I just never seemed to find the right match amongst them.

It was quite a downer sometimes. I had different thoughts too on why that was happening. I wondered if there was something wrong with me. There was a certain element of anxiety I viewed for my future surrounding relationships. I didn't understand why something like being in a relationship could actually drive someone to such level of unhappiness. Shouldn't relationships be a happy thing? Why would something that is supposed to bring me bliss result in so much unhappiness in myself?

Realization That I Am Complete

After much introspection and probing, it finally hit home - I was looking at all of this the wrong way. All the frustration on getting a relationship arose because I was looking for a relationship to complete myself.

For example, I was putting off various aspects of my life until I find my life partner. It resulted in hidden tension and anxiety towards finding my life partner. Fact is, I am already complete by myself. There is no need for my life partner to enter into my life before all those things can happen. I can do them as and when I want to. I was looking at a relationship as two halves forming a whole, when it should be about two wholes forming a bigger union.

When I released myself of those limiting beliefs, my views towards relationships totally changed. I stopped looking at relationships with a feeling of desperation. I became grounded in myself. I became truly and perfectly happy being a single.

Does this mean I don't want to be in a relationship? No, I do want to be. The difference is that desire stopped being based in fear-level emotions. It is now based in groundedness and love-based emotions.

Are You Complete By Yourself?

Are you complete as a single? There is a huge difference on your perceptions towards relationships between when you see yourself as incomplete and when you see yourself as already complete.When it is the latter, getting into a relationship becomes something that is supplementary and will make you a fuller person, rather than a prerequisite to make you whole. You start becoming grounded. You start to know what you want and what's truly right for you. You become full of self confidence and happiness. While you look towards being in a relationship someday, you are perfectly happy being by yourself at the same time.

LATEST DATING TRENDS: Today's Dating Scene - What You Need To Know

"I give up on dating, Kate! There's lots of people finding real love online -- but not me! What's wrong with me?"

As a marriage counselor for over 30 years, I've witnessed a massive change in the dating scene. On a recent forum of counselors and psychologists, I heard a wide range of theories relating to this change. One elderly and well-respected doctor blamed "Southern California" -- meaning Hollywood and Porn Valley -- for the "decline in traditional morality." Others have pointed out that there seems to be a decrease in sexual activity among the young, a "new teenage conservatism."

The one thing that we all agreed on is the emergence of Internet Dating as the primary way of meeting your match.

According to the Pew Internet & American Life Project's Online Dating Survey, the majority of actively dating Americans have tried to score online at least once. One out of three adults says they "know someone who has used a dating website." Last year alone, more than 17 million people attempted to cyberflirt their way to a love Online.

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What are the hottest trends in online dating?

The US Census Bureau tells us there are at least 92 million single Americans.

The large, well-known generic dating sites are doing tons of business. But for all their successes, there are millions of disappointed singles. The reason is that these older services are too big. Many singles have been unable to find someone to love who shares their basic values, their life-interests and passions.

That's where the hot new breed of Matchmakers come in. Winnie, of the exciting new WUVING.com, says, "This one is for people seeking longlasting love, even marriage!"

They've found out that the new successful dating sites are the Catagory Sites -- places dedicated to those special interests.

What are those Catagories?

**One is the rise in Baby Boomers as customers of the top dating sites. Around 30% of the nation's 80 million Baby Boomers are single, and they have money. Winnie reports double-digit growth in the 50-plus market.

**In an article titled "Sick, Single and Seeking Same," Newsweek writer Julie Scelfo wrote "Prescription4Love.com is becoming a go-to spot online where singletons who also happen to have diseases from hepatitis to herpes to irritable bowel syndrome can find love and companionship without having to worry about the big reveal." Visits to this site are low, but that's the point. Theoretically, the reduced-size dating pool increases your probability of meeting someone who shares your interests.

**Worldwide matchmaking is back. Asians, Australians, Africans, Latin Americans -- people are meeting from all over the planet -- love, romance and common interests and values are more important now than nationality. Especially for those who believe in a traditional marriage.

**Interracial dating sites are really booming. Interracial Cupid has become one of the hottest dating sites anywhere. An Interracial dating site for black and white singles seeking love, dating and marriage, it's "got buzz."

**"All Shapes" sites are also increasing fast in popularity. Big Beautiful Women, Tall men and Women -- all shapes and sizes. Again, singles are tired of being just a ghost on a huge generic website. They know who they really are and they want to find a true soulmate.

To see what the new Catagory Dating is about, search out the niche that you think describes you best...

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Or go to www.wuving.com...

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WUVING.com is loaded with tips and articles from the top experts in relationships. Among them, are Michael Webb of OPRAH SHOW fame, whose articles have appeared in over 50 magazines such as Redbook and Woman's World. And Kara Oh, selling author of MARRIAGE MADE EASY and has appeared on CBS News and FOX News and in magazines like Cosmopolitan and Woman's World.

And the people you can immediately reach are "men and women found locally and worldwide."

What WUVING.com has done is specialize in individual needs of people looking for real love and romance. "You can meet people in our military, singles, people of all sizes and races and cultures and personal values -- in other words -- real people!"

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-- Kate Falken

Married (With a Baby) and Still in Love With My Ex

I fell in love with my soulmate in May of 1997. I just didn't know it at the time. We met briefly at an overnight work trip to the country, I was almost 16 and he was almost 20. We spent the night talking, all night, pouring our souls out to one another. Nothing else happened, even though this was in Europe, so even if we had kissed etc it wouldn't have been frowned upon. I thought of him often with fondness, even though I didn't know him at all.

My wild teenage years passed, I eventually graduated from college in 2004 and was ready to make my debut as a businesswoman. But while looking for a job, I decided to work again for the restaurant where I had met "him" some 7 years prior.

I had worked there for 2 weeks when a stranger came into the kitchen. He was tall, dark and handsome, it made my knees weak and I had to breathe slowly from the excitement. He wasn't cute in any conventional way, his glasses were held together with a little bit of masking tape but his eyes had the most piercing stare I had ever seen. He turned toward me and said, "I see you're back working here, Lulu." In disbelief I wondered how this stranger knew me. It was him! It was really him! He had been on a trip out of the country for the past month and came back only to find ME here! The sexual tension was unbearable, we went home together the first night we worked together but tried to keep our personal affairs away from business hours. I was very immature, I asked him not to tell anybody we were seeing each other, and the games were on.

The reason I didn't want anyone to know about us was because I was so in love with him. I didn't want to get hurt, so I was incredibly cold towards him. The sneaking around and coldness turned our relationship a little bitter, even though we would play the cat and mouse and forget everything, locked inside my place or his. I had never loved anybody so much but I was so afraid of losing him that I couldn't show him or tell him.

It was a series of a million one-night-stands. We stopped working together but the mini-flings continued. I wished I had been kinder in the beginning, I wished I hadn't asked him to keep us a secret. I wished we could be a normal couple.

He drank a lot, we were distant even when naked in bed together. But something drew us toward one another, I loved him and hated him at the same time. We actually said those precious words to each other on numerous occasions when we opened up to one another. The next day, the magic was always gone, he wouldn't repeat what he had said and neither would I. After two years of reciprocating emotional abuse, I broke it off, frustrated by the fact that I was feeling like a hamster in a wheel, never going anywhere.

I knew it was over, I couldn't waste any more time on him. But I still loved him, so much that no other man would do. Either I could live my life devoted to him forever, never marrying, wallowing in self-pity....or I could move on. I moved on, although I never stopped loving him. It had been almost 2 years since our break-up. I met a man who seemed as good as any, that I was not in love with but would be fine. We were good friends, at least. I did feel a little guilty dreaming of the other guy while in bed with my husband, but I knew it wasn't my fault, I really wished I were in love with my husband. We had a baby soon after we were married, a beautiful, well-behaved little angel boy. Sadly, it changed nothing.

When my husband cheated on me very early on in our marriage, I was a relieved to have a way out. I had been starting to feel a little regretful for my decision to get married while in love with someone else.

While surfing the internet, I came across a program that had a headline, "Are You Still In Love With Your Ex?" Usually, I ignore stuff like that, but I had to see what it was since I could relate to it. It was an ebook with a 60 day money-back guarantee. Knowing I had nothing to lose, I bought it and was very surprised. Only 16 days later "he" was on a date with me! Wow, when I think about all we've been through in the last 12 years, it's insane. In the 3 years we were apart, he stopped drinking and finished his degree while I got married and had a baby! But we are more in love than we've ever been, and this time, we're giving it a real go. I can't thank this program enough and I don't regret anything.

Are Disabled Dating Sites Credible? Can I Really Find Disabled Singles and Disabled Love Online?

Regardless of your culture, ethnic background, or ability, finding your true soulmate is never going to be an easy task. However if you suffer from a disability then the task is going to be even harder.

I am a disabled single and I wonder if looking for love online with disabled online dating is going to complicate my life further? Is it really possible for me to find a disabled individual online using a disabled dating site? Or is internet dating for disabled singles a disaster waiting to happen?

As a disabled individual i decided to explore the wonders of disability dating websites for myself, in an attempt to assess their credibilty, and seek out the best of the bunch. My first stop was a disabled dating site called Disabled Love at http://www.disabledlove.org/. Disabled Love is a very attractive looking disabled dating website offering the chance to find disabled friends or disabled love with other disabled people with disabilities like myself and boasting a massive 20,000 members from around the UK.

Registering was very simple; I gave my contact details and uploaded a rather handsome picture of myself on a disabled holiday i went on last year. Within minutes I recieved a message from a disabled girl called Jessica, quite a shy but funky looking pink haired girl from London, yes 'Pink Hair', who asked me politely how i was and asked me about the disabilities I have.

It did'nt take long for me to decide that Jessica was not my type and I moved on, beginning to wonder whether it was a good idea signing up to this disabled dating website. Later I recieved a ton of emails from Jessica, i guess Jessica does not like to be ignored; and with that crazy pink hair; I must admit i was a little scared also. I decided to bid online disabled dating an undecidedly fond farewell for that day and left http://www.disabledlove.org/.

However the following day i thought not to give up just because the first disabled single i made contact with at the disability dating site was not my ideal match. Despite my feelings of dating for the disabled at this moment in time, i plucked up the courage to visit Disabled Love again and was quite pleasantly suprised to find a message from a disabled woman called Helen. She was 34, 2 years younger than me... But WOW she really was my type. Now i was starting to think this could be a good thing signing up to Disabled Love.

I sent her a nice reply thanking her for the message she sent me; and we began to message each other frequently after that. I am happy to say two years on me and Helen are still together and planning to marry next year.

Being a disabled individual definetely does impact your social life and it is difficult to find disabled friends; and disabled love especially. We do not have the same opportunities that able singles have. Disabled dating sites really help singles with disabilities meet other similar singles. For me finding love on the internet using http://www.disabledlove.org/ was ideal. I would definitely recommend looking into online dating for the disabled. Although you should be careful of the dangers of talking to someone you don't know on the internet. I would also be careful of crazy pink haired girls from London!

Do You Want Your Ex Back Now?

Do You Want Your Ex Back Now?

People are always looking for the soulmate to spend their lives with. When you are lucky enough to find that person, you may feel happier than ever, and feel like the relationship will last forever. Unfortunately though, breakups are possible and can happen to any couple. Sometimes breakups are necessary, but in other cases they can be undone. Do you want an ex back because you can't seem to live without them? Here are some tips that will help you get your ex back.

1. First of all, you need to keep a clear mind if you want to get your ex back. People can always tell if you are being controlled by emotions, and if you seem to be focused too intently on the breakup, your ex will know. You need to temporarily quit thinking about how to fix the relationship and just clear your head. It will improve your communication with your ex, which will also improve your chances of getting your ex back again.

2. If you want your ex back, you need to maintain your dignity. I know you may want to do anything possible to get your ex back, but you should not start apologizing and begging just to save the relationship. Instead you need to be strong, calm down, and act fine on your own to get their attention again.

3. To get your ex back, you need to create a wow factor. Try to make some minor changes in your life to create a new you to a degree. Work out some, change your wardrobe, or change jobs. Just do something that will improve your image a little. Your ex will be sure to notice how you have changed positively, and will like the changes.

4. To get your ex back, do not forget about the breakup. Don't allow your past to haunt you, but don't forget the facts that led to the breakup either. Chalk it up to experience and realize that you can use this experience to help you in the future. This will help you to keep from making the same mistakes once you do get back together with your ex.

5. The final step is to create a plan! You can't just emotionally go all out and hope to save your relationship. Instead, think logically and act accordingly. If you put some serious thought into it, you have a much better chance of getting your ex back. Have a plan and you will be much more likely to succeed.

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Webcam Chat

Recently meeting and knowing people online via Webcam Chats is become an easy job just like making a friend next door. Webcam Chats is an exciting way to expand your friend circle and hanging around. Not only you can make friends by Webcam Chats but you can also find a partner who shares same interests resembling yours and ultimately he/she might turn up to be your soulmate. Webcam Chats are getting more popular recent years and are most interesting to the youngsters. To know many people and to hang out amidst friends is good enough and of great importance as these are the years of your growth where you can find your loved one who can eventually lead you in all phases of your life.

The teen age and the college life is full of excitement and enjoyment and Internet fills up to your excitement. Webcam Chat is a common notion as this means is greatly used by youths to get them a partner they had thought of, provided they chat with attentiveness, they shouldn't become a fool and fall in any problem. There is a great rise in online societies and social networking which has aided youngsters to socialize more than ever before. There are some things to be kept in mind on a Webcam Chat prior revealing your identity to any person:
1. Never give your contact details promptly till you personally know the person.
2. Always remember that the person on Webcam Chat is completely unknown to you so use a correct speech.
3. While chatting, speak exactly and if you are attracted to the persons way of conduct, be cautious as you can never judge a person by his language.
4. After chatting for a number of times you can meet the person and the place where you meet must be a public place or a busy restaurant or hotel simply during the busy hours of the day, not late in the evenings, it nay be dicey as you don't individually the person.
5. Always go with your friend or your relative while dating the person for the first time.
6. Do not show your weak point or family problems as he might take unnecessary advantage of your condition.

But there is nothing to worry about, if you consider the above explained things in mind you will certainly find your Mr. Perfect some day. The webcam chat assists you to see the person whom you are chatting to, but then appearances are illusory, never go on appearance in fact kniw his heart and thoughts through several chat meetings and if he sounds true go ahead.

There are many community sites or social networks that help you to initiate a webcam chat, you first need to enroll with the site where your detail is safeguarded, after this you can make a hunt for your partner and get many offers to start a chat. You can add on your decent snap too, now make a sensible search for the individual you are looking for and initiate chatting, once the genuinity of the person is verified by a many webcam chat meetings and you have found a dear one who matches your interests go ahead and meet him. Webcam Chat usually assists you to find the partner of your dreams.

The Online Dating Coach offers Easy Guidelines to Make Online Dating a Success

National studies show that 25% of all single adults have paid for the use of Online Dating Services - and - that number is expected to increase to 50% over the next five to seven years!

Will you be one of those who come aboard?

Because of the explosive growth of Online Dating - and especially if you yourself are single and looking for a partner online - it may be helpful to learn the best ways to use Online Dating Sites before actually joining one of them! As an Online Dating Coach, I want to help you make the best use of your time and money in your quest to find your Soulmate.

First and foremost, as in any relationship, honesty will be the most important factor in your finding a partner who shares your values and personal interests.

What type of relationship are you looking for? If you'd like to find someone who's fun to be with so you can have some play time on the weekends, by stating your goal honestly right at the beginning, there will be a much greater likelihood of meeting someone who has the same vision.

One of the obvious side-benefits of this is your avoiding a series of uncomfortable conversations later about why you won't commit to the relationship, or why you're not willing to spend more time together, etc.

Another useful tip when entering the world of Online Dating is to match your choice of dating sites with the type of relationship you're seeking. If you're looking for a weekend companion "without any strings attached," there are dating sites you can join whose members feel the same way. On the other hand, if your goal is to meet someone for marriage, you'd be better off starting with an online dating site whose members have the same intentions. As a Dating Coach, one of the first steps in working with new clients is my assessing their innermost values. By starting with this step, I can better recommend the dating sites that will deliver appropriate matches.

If you're tired of random dating and not finding someone compatible, then my advice is to join the better known online dating sites which charge for their matchmaking services. Most of these companies use sophisticated compatibility software which match the subtleties of your unique personality. They will also match the basics like your marital status, religion, and education. By asking in-depth questions, and having you rate their importance, many online dating sites produce high success rates for meetings between the same clients. In other words, the match made through the dating service was pleasant enough so both parties wanted to see each other again after their first date.

Finally, to be safe in your quest to find your Soulmate, consider using an anonymous email address (through Gmail, Yahoo, Hotmail, or something similar) without assigning your true name (and certainly not your last name) to your account, nor should you include your home telephone number. It's best to get to know someone through the dating site first, before providing this information.

After your initial online email exchange and perhaps one or two IM chat sessions, you should be ready (assuming all goes well) to make plans for a telephone conversation. The proper online dating etiquette would be for the woman to call the man first, blocking her telephone number from Caller ID. Only after one or two successful telephone calls should a face-to-face meeting at a coffee shop be scheduled.

In the interest of safety, always plan your first couple dates in a public place, and even better if it's during the day. Do not pick up or ask to be picked up for the date. Meet each other at a mutually agreed upon location, and also agree ahead of time to leave each other from a public place so you can drive home in your own cars. If your potential date balks at the suggestion to not be in a vehicle together, look elsewhere for sure. It's not worth your safety to try to figure out if the person you met online may just be over-sensitive or unaware of the "rules."

By following these simple guidelines, you can make online dating a success. By the second date, if all goes well, trust should be established and you'll be on your way to building your next relationship!