Where To Run Into Your Partner For Life

It's hard being alone. More so during the holidays with all the parties. If you're on that challenging search to meet the love of your life, but don't know where to go, read below for tips on the best locales to meet a potential mate.

One of the reasons why you haven't run into Mr. or M.s Right yet, is that you could be trying in the wrong places. All the obvious ones like club and bar venues are usually places you should leave alone - that is if you are after a long-term relationship. Most folks you meet in clubs or bars are not looking for a long term partner. Even though there are exceptions, they are rare.

So in what places do you go to find true love?

1. Group outings. The surest place to find your potential mate is during group activities, such as bowling, canoeing, or kickball. This is because gatherings like this can be less pressured than a date and you'll also get the benefit of meeting several new acquaintances in a group setting. Say yes next time you're invited to a group outing. You could meet your soul mate while gabbing with friends.

2. Gym. The gym provides ample chance to meet new people. Most folks are there to exercise so it's easy to strike up a conversation with that somebody you fancy by asking him or her relevant questions such as how to use the equipment or about a yoga pose.

3. Coffee shop. The coffee shop is the place everyone is these days. Most people go solo so it's a less nerve-wracking way to begin a conversation with a potential suitor. Sit with him or her and begin by offering a cup of coffee.

4. Hiking. Lots of singles enjoy the adventure of hiking. Find kindred spirits if you're trying to find outdoor partners. The wonderful part is that you won't run out of things to talk about when you are reveling in nature. If you're intimidated, just question them about the longest hike they've ever been on.

5. At work. Don't try this if your company has a policy prohibiting office romances. But, if you can, finding your soulmate at work always makes work a lot more entertaining!

6. Places of worship. Because a church has these activities for members, this is a possible alternative. If you belong to a church, always sign up for group outings to improve the chances of finding another with the same religious faith as you.

7. Social networking arenas. You can chat via computer with social networking websites such as Facebook or you can go to social networking opportunities. In addition to improving the number of your business contacts, you can also get to know new persons and potential love interests.

8. Go to art exhibits, community events, and poetry slams. In addition to getting to know new folks, you will also have fun, learn something new and seem more fascinating to potential suitors once they meet you.

9. Take a class. If you are attending college, you'll run into a flurry of wonderful opportunities to meet new people at school. If you're done with school, you might enjoy taking a class in subjects you're interested in such as dancing or language. Not only can you learn how to make soufflés, you just might find your perfect match as well.

10. Online dating sites. In the information age the most available and safest way to meet other people without partners is through computer dating. Most people have some friends that have been successful this way.

The truth is you can meet your life partner almost anywhere. You have a good shot at finding your mate. Just be open to it, prepared, and available to let it happen. Let folks know you are available and take risks and put your best to the test. You never know when you'll find Mr. or Ms. Right; walking in your local park or at a book signing, so live it up and be on the lookout for love!